feat(metrics): H-04 Prometheus 指标暴露

- 创建 internal/metrics 包集成 Prometheus 客户端
- 添加 HTTP 请求指标（总量、延迟直方图）
- 添加业务指标（active_hosts、active_providers）
- 添加路由指标（decisions、failovers）
- 添加数据库指标（connections、operations）
- 添加日志指标（flush_errors、dropped_events）
- 添加 HTTP Middleware 自动收集请求指标
- 添加 StartServer 方法启动独立 metrics 服务

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